SEVEN YEARS



It's just mind-boggling. Seven years seems like a really long time. Then again, a part of me feels like I have known Mali forever, even before she graced us with her presence. When I think back to her birth, I admit I have regrets. It's taken me a long time to admit that, but there it is. In retrospect, I think we rushed her out. Even though she was 10 days overdue, I wish we would have let her come in her own time. Knowing her now, I realize it's hard to rush this girl even today (and those of you who know her Daddy well, know where she gets that!).

On the morning of her birthday, the first thing she said to me was, "I've figured out that I like Christmas better than birthdays. You know why? Because at Christmas everyone gets gifts, but on birthdays only one person does." This is so typical of her. She is unselfish and considerate, always thinking of what every situation is like for the people around her. She is sincerely kind, and strives to be even more so.

Looking back at her short 7 years, we have had some periods of concern about her, and it has caused us all some strife. However, she just always seems to shine her way through it all. She is thriving, and has brought us tremendous joy. Sometimes I am humbled by her and don't feel quite deserving of the love she floods me with. Sometimes I feel like I know exactly who she is and will be and I am proud. I can honestly say that those who call her a friend in her long life ahead will consider themselves lucky. She will treat them well.



She always tells me, "Mama, I love you all the way up to the sky and back" and I always respond, "I know just how much that is, because that's how much I love you."

Thank you, Mali, for filling our lives with love and joy and gratitude. You are a gem!